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I'm the kind of person who likes to do things on their own, and I'd really like to think that I can go to a totally new country and figure it out without any help. Trying to do that in Turkey would be a massive mistake. Sure, I could find my way to the regular tourist sites, like the Hagia Sophia and the Blue Mosque; I could have a great time and go home with unforgettable experiences. But without someone who really knows the place and the culture, it just wouldn't be the same. I never would have learned about telling fortunes from the grounds left over in Turkish coffee- how the shapes closest to the handle deal with the home and the shapes in the very middle of the saucer are for matters of the heart. I never would have known about the blue evil eye stones used in every home, car, and outfit to absorb negative energy. I wouldn't know that Turks don't eat potato skins, have ice, or sit in front of drafts. And I definitely wouldn't be able to bargain something down in the Grand Bazaar. You really need someone to take you to a cool, out of the way cafe and just talk about all the things you won't find in a guide book. The little facts about everyday life and the stories are what make this study abroad experience really special.
Being introduced to local Turkish people and having them show us around is so beyond helpful, which seems to be a word I use a lot here. Everyone I meet wants to help me find my way, tell me about the local history, give me some tea. They all have tips about how to get around the city or bargain in the Grand Bazaar. They may even introduce you to yet another person who can help you with yet another thing. And even though I don't speak Turkish, trying out a few words seems to be enough. I thought navigating the city would be difficult at best and the language barrier would completely hamper my ability to do anything. I'm happy to say I was totally wrong. However, there is a downside to all the helpful/bilingual population- they make me feel guilty for not speaking more languages or offering to help them in some way. It makes me want to be a better person when I get home by helping people and inviting new acquaintances in for tea and a snack.